Dating Mandala

Dec 17, 2025

In the last post, Kevin shared his thoughts on the Matrix as a Word Mandala

We had a conversation about relationships during a recent Crowdcast event.

What hit me was the Matrix is also a Dating Mandala.

It applies whether your are with your long-time partner or someone new.

For example, you can draw it on a napkin.
You can picture it in your mind.

This may lead you to wonder: who’s important?
What’s showing up inside?
What are my relief moves?
What might I do to move closer?

Just gaze for a moment.
Allow the image to settle.

Then wipe it away.

Go about your day.

You can do this alone.
Or, if you prefer, share it.
It can be a shared-purpose mandala, too.
A quiet place to look together.

Especially when things move too fast.

Phil Tenaglia, M.A.

PS: You can check out the conversation here